Experience Suffering

how does this change your life or change your thinking about life for one to experience suffering how can one measure suffering is this or that suffering experience greater or less then.WHY DO WE SEE IT AS SUFFERING ? WHEN AND WHERE DID THIS THOUGHT COME FROM AND WHY ? And not see it as an awakening spirit the reason i say an awakening spirit because "WAM" it can change your life in a matter of a second it can change your thoughts even your desires it can have you looking to the Father for answers or seeking death  is that not the spirit awaken

suffering in the physical world will have us to believe it is bad to experience  Some will even pray to rebuke the experience if we pray the experience of suffering away then what are we saying that the Father is wrong that the Father doesnt know what he's doing that this wasnt suppose to happen .The suffering experience is the work of the Father to awaken the spirit to change something within our life  Sometimes its just to give testimony about the experience of suffering  so that the Father can recieve glory and praise